So I hear it time and time again. I don't necessarily find it a problem. I mean if it really was a problem I would change it. But it's always the same thing. "Oh...you are so nice, but I would be a bad influence on you." Or.. "you are such an awesome guy but..." and it's quite frankly annoying. Is it because I go for the bad girls? I don't think so, I have found some very awesome people...even great friends, but what the heck?!?! Since when was it their decision to make that decision for me.
I guess I shouldn't be going too much into a rant right now because I think I might have found someone who is awesome like that and might not give me that excuse. At least I hope not. But maybe I am counting my blessings too fast. I don't know. The fact that I hear it so often is what makes me turn away from even trying to date. And that just gets me nowhere. Absolutely nowhere. So the question is, do I drop this near egotistical behavior, humble myself, take in the nice guy that I am, and just keep trying regardless of the many times I get let down or disgusted with it? Yeah I think I just drop it...being nice has gotten me places as well. I can't complain. The right one will come, maybe she is the right one....who knows. Only time and patience can tell.
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